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In these unusual times I am pleased to offer telephone consultations and Skype calls.  I am pleased to hear from you. 
Either phone on 07768 781573 or email janetclove@aol.com

Topical Up To The Minute News on Coronavirus! and more … 

 

In “New Scientist” this week (1 Aug, 2020) there was an article on viruses.  It stated that the Vikings 1000 AD may have had a milder version of the virus smallpox.  It also cited that the Variolo Virus which causes smallpox has plagued people for thousands of years as evidence obtained from the DNA of Egyptian Mummies.  Viruses are part of our natural world! and always have been since 3000 BC.
 
One of the least understood aspects of the philosophy behind Systemic Constellation Therapy is that all our problems come from being out of relationship with not just our family, and culture, but also out of relationship with THE LAWS OF NATURE and OUR HISTORICAL CONTEXT.
 
Evolutionary History helps us understand how our lives are path dependent on what came before.  Viruses have been  part of human life on earth since history has been recorded.  Apparently it is the global transmission which is different because of the huge increase in air travel in the 21st Century.  It always helps to understand historical context.  
 
Apart from that not much else to offer as still no guidelines from the government on when my workshop venues will re-open.  Hoping for September?
 
In the meantime am here on Skype offering Constellation Work through constructing Genosociograms – Family Trees that trace the patterns of repeating traumas and learned negative thought patterns, in order to heal ourselves of unconscious repetition.
 
In the meantime you might like to read this poem
 
You are the salt
that has been carried
across vast seas,
You are made of soil
of seeds
from ancient trees.
You are what’s woven 
a basket of stories
that carries medicine
and lost
and broken 
keys.
You are your ancestors 
wildest dreams.
You are their apologies
You are their forgiveness
bowed on their knees
You are their joy
and their grief.
You are here to make 
the food
They long 
to eat.
 
(Marybeth Bonfiglo)
 
Warmest wishes Janet

SYSTEMIC / FAMILY CONSTELLATION GROUP ONE DAY WORKSHOPS LONDON

Price: £165

Next Workshop Dates 2020

  • We anticipate resuming in September.
Venue: Regents University, London NW1
Time: 9.15 a.m. – 6.30 p.m.
BOOK NOW

Or email: janetclove@aol.com

INDIVIDUAL CONSTELLATION SESSIONS

Venue: London N.1

1st Session – 2 1/2 hours £195

Book by sending email: or phone: 07768 781573

Follow up sessions – 1 1/2 hours £100
See Individual Sessions for more details 
February 2020 Workshop Testimonials
“I’ve tried various forms of therapy over the years but Janet’s constellation sessions have been instrumental and the most profound to me. I’ve found a more compassionate view on Others and the world. It feels like it’s made my heart bigger and with it the world a nicer place to be”. 
November 2019 Workshop Testimonials
“I found the constellation workshop to be totally transformational, it really helped me understand my family dynamic in a way that I hadn’t explored before. I would highly recommend the workshop for anyone with an open mind and an open heart”.
“I have had 10+ years of therapy, including Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy, and none of that prepared me for the powerful and moving experience of this constellation workshop. It is right up there with one of life’s best experiences to date. I understand my family set-up and dynamics in a way that I could not possibly have done without constellation work. I believe everyone should explore their family constellation, preferably with Janet, at least once.  Amazing.  I cannot wait to continue my own journey towards freedom”.
 

Janet C Love

Janet LoveUKCP MBACP dip AT ISCA

Janet offers since 2006: 

SYSTEMIC/FAMILY CONSTELLATION THERAPY
Healthy Relationships not just with our current family but with previous generations including both the living and the dead. What we believe to be our personal issues are just part of a bigger intergenerational pattern which also connects us to Nature and the Universe.

AUTOGENIC THERAPY
A Healthy Autonomic Nervous System
Autogenic means Self-Generated Healing and is taught in 8 to 10 one hour sessions. It is a drug free self-empowering technique which accesses the parasympathetic in the autonomic nervous system and restores balance and harmony to the entire psycho-physiological system.

TRANSPERSONAL PSYCHOTHERAPY
A Healthy Mind
Transpersonal Psychotherapy offers a Relationship of Care.

Janet is author of ‘Psychosis in the Family’ which describes her journey of how and why she became a Constellation Therapist.  She is currently writing her second book on Transgenerational Healing – to be published in 2020.

 

More about Janet

Family Systemic Constellation Work Offers:

  1. Immediate and long-term healing for you and potentially for other members of your family.
  2. A way of revealing and healing the unconscious patterns of repetition of unresolved trauma in the family system.
  3. Direct Experience of working with the dynamics of group healing through collective fields of consciousness.
Workshop Details
October 2019 Workshop Testimonies
“Thank you so much for the workshop. I really enjoyed it.  It helped me to gain some acceptance and understanding around my current situation”.
“It is a beautiful work, well conducted. Janet guided me on the best approach to take; which helped me better understand the cause so I could move closer to the healing path. Powerful.”
September 2019 Workshop Testimonials
“A really great and important aspect of the constellation experience is being part of a loving and supportive group, and feeling equally part of that group. I always gain new insights during the workshop of what it feels like to belong and relate in a loving way to others.”
 “The words can’t express my gratitude to your insightfulness into processing the given situations that have taken place at the workshop. Your skills are a light in the dark and your knowledge has no limit into making us all feel enlightened and empowered by leaving the heavy weight behind us.” Eve (volunteer at Care UK).
“Thank you for a very beneficial workshop.  I feel a weight lifted from me and I feel lighter. The workshop helped me reach into my inner core – the part I fear – and as a result  I feel calmer, more open and more integrated.” Michele – London.

Healing the Unhealed Stories of Our Ancestral Past

Healing means to make ‘whole.’  To make us whole we have to have healthy relationships not just with our current family but with previous generations including both the living and the dead.  It is not just about remembering the autobiographical details of those who went before us but what life events shaped their lives.  Personal traumas like premature deaths and collective traumas such as war or enforced migration leave energetic imprints on the family soul.  These legacies of unresolved grief and injustices are passed on through inherited belief systems.  These can then manifest as unconscious repetition of both physical and psychological problems until transformed into conscious awareness.
 
Just as traditional societies have always recognised, connecting to our ancestors stories and  their life experiences holds the key to our present day healing for both the past and future generations.
 
“The less we understand of what our ancestors experienced the less we understand ourselves.” 
Carl Jung, Memories Dreams & Reflections